UPDATE Found Email Of Fiancé To His ExGF Belittling & Making Fun Of Me... RELATIONSHIP ADVICE

My fiancé, "Dale", and I have been together for 5 years. We are as solid as I guess anyone thinks they are, before something like this blindsides them. I am in total and complete shock, I'm just sitting here shaking I can't even cry yet.

Dale is at work right now; I haven't texted him or called him or anything at this point. When we got together, he had just broken up with his college sweetheart. She was his first love. I was afraid I was a rebound, but he said that wasn't true and I believed him, the rest is history. Sorry is this is rushed and all over the place, nothing makes sense in my head right now.

I used his laptop about 2 hours ago to open his contacts list he has saved on there, so I could get addresses for our wedding invites. Been telling him to get those to me for over a week so I decided to do it. He keeps his contacts info on his email. Then when I opened his email, I saw an email on the very top of his inbox with the subject line "Re: Jen (not real name), how can I when..."

The subject line got cut off after that so I couldn't see more without clicking. "Jen" is the name of his ex from college. I sat there for at least 10 minutes trying to decide if I should open it or not. But I decided he should have nothing to hide, so I did it.

Rest of the subject line was "Re: Jen, how can I when you still exist?"

The email was her replying to a string of emails between the two of them that has gone on for over a week. Long story short, Dale is still in love with Jen. He thinks about her constantly, that he'll never find another woman like her.

Even worse is that he makes fun of me and she laughs about it.



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UPDATE: I [28f] literally just found email after email from my fiancé [27m] to his ex girlfriend [20s/f] belittling and making fun of me and worse. Seriously shocked beyond belief right now.


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